Part 2
Mayyit ke liye dua karna
Hadees: Jab Nabi e Kareem Sallallahu alaihi wasallam abu samla RadiAllahutaAlaAnhuma ki wafaath k baad ghar tashreef le gaye to dua farmaayi ke aye Allah abu salma ko baqsh de aur us ke darje ko hidaayat yaafta logo me buland farma, us ke baaqi logo ki nigraani farma, aye jahaano ke parvardigaar hame aur use baqsh de aur us ki qabar us ke liye kushaada aur munawwar farma de {Sahi Muslim Hadees No. 920}.
Mayyit ko Kisi kapde se dhaanpna:
Hadees: Nabi e Paak Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ki wafaat ke baad Aap Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ko dhaari daar chaadar se dhaanp diya gaya tha {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 5814}.
Halaate ehraam mein inteqaal karne waale ka chehra na dhaapa jaaye
Hadees: ek sahabi RadiAllahutaAlaAnhu ehraam pehene hoye the aur apni sawaari se gir kar faut hogaye to Nabi e Kareem Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya ke ise paani aur beri ke patto ke saath ghusul do aur use us ke ehraam ke duno kapdo me kafan do, use khushbu mat lagaao aur us ke sar aur chehre ko mat dhaanko, bilasubah use qayamat ke din talbiya kehte hoye hee uthaya jayega {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 1265}.
Mayyit ke kafan dafan me jaldi karni chahiye
Hadees: Sarkar Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne faramaya janaaze ke saath jaldi karo, kyo ke agar wo nek hai to tum us ko bhalaayi ki taraf nazdik kar rahe ho aur agar wo us ke siva hai to ek shar hai jise tum apni gardano se utaarte ho {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No.1315}.
Mayyit ke Chahre se kapda hatana Aur bosa lena jaiz hai
Hadees: Hazrat.Abubakr Siddiq RadiAllahutaAlaAnhu ne Rahmat e Do Aalam Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ki wafaat ke baad Aap Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ke chehre se kapda hataya aur jhuk kar chehre Mubarak ko busa diya aur rone lage (yaani do aankho ke darmiyaan busa liya) {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 4452}.
Mayyith ke rishtedaar sabr kare aur inna lillaahi wa inna ilaihi rajioon kahe
Hadees: Nabi e Kareem ne ek khatoon rishtedaar se farmaya sabr to jab sadma shuru ho us waqt karna chahiye aur Mayyit par rona pitna haraam hai {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 1283}.
Hadees: Sarkar e do jahan Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya jis ne kisi ki Mout par rukhsaaro (Gaal) ko pita, girebaan ko phada aur jaheliyat ki baate baki, wo hum me se nahi{Sahi Bukhari Hadees No.1294}.
Aulaad ki wafaat par sabr ki fazilat:
Hadees: Nabiyon ke sardar Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne ansaari aurto se farmaya tum me se jis aurat ke 3 bacche faut ho gaye aur us ne sabr se kaam liya to wo jannat me daakhil hogi, ek aurat ne pucha kya 2 baccho ke liye bhi yahi maamla hai, Aap Alaihissalam ne faramaya haan. {Sahi Muslim Hadees No. 2632}.
Ghar waalo ke rone se mayyit ko azaab hota hai
Hadees: madine ke tajdar Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya ke mayyit par us ke ghar waalo ke baaz rone se use azaab hota hai {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No.1287}.
Mayyat par rone ki jaayez surat:
Hazrat Jabir RadiAllahutaAlaAnhu ne kaha ke jab mere waalid Shaheed ho gaye to main un ke chehre par pada hua kapda kholta aur rota tha, dosre log mujhe rokte the lekin Nabi kareem Sallallahu alaihi wasallam kuch nahi keh rahe the.{Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 1244}.
(Yaani mayyath ko dekh kar agar rona aaye to koi baat nahi lekin nuha nahi karna chahiye yaani cheekh wa pukaar).
Ittela dene waale ko chahiye ke mayyit ke liye isteghfaar ki talqeen kare { Sahih ibn maja Hadees No.1957}.
Wirsa ko chahiye ke jald az jald mayyit ke qarz ko ada kare
Hadees: Aaqa e nemat Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya momin ki ruh qarz ke saath us waqt tak muallaq rehti hai jab tak use ada nahi kar diya jaata .
Hadees: Nabi sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya jis shakhs ne logo se ada karne ke iraade se maal haasil kiya (phir kisi wajeh se wo zindagi me ada na kar saka) to Allah ta’ala us ki taraf se ada farma denga, (yaani intezaam farma denga) aur jis ne logo se halaak (zabt) karne ki niyyat se maal liya to Allah ta’ala bhi use halaak kar denga.{Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 2378}.
Biwi ke siva mayyat par 3 din se gham kisi ke liye jaayez nahi hai
Hadees: umme habiba RadiAllahutaAlaAnha ne kaha ke Sarkar Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya ke kisi aurat ke liye jo Allah aur yaume aakhirat par imaan rakhti ho jaayez nahi ke wo 3 din se zyaada kisi ka gham manaaye sivaaye shuhar ke (ke us ka soog) 4 mahine 10 din tak hai {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 5334}.
Marne waale ko gaaliya dena mamno hai:
Hadees: Nabi e Kareem Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya murdo ko gaali mat do, kyo ke unhone aage bheja hai use haasil kar liya hai {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 1393}.
Mayyat ka gusl:
Zinda afraad par musalmaan mayyit ko gusl dena waajib hai
Hadees: jab Nabi Alaihissalam ki beti ki wafaat huyi to Nabi Sallallahu alaihi wasallam waha tashref laaye aur faramaya ke ise 3 ya 5 ya is se bhi zyaada martaba gusl do {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 1253}.
Miya biwi ek dosre ko ghusl dene ke zyaada haqdaar hai
Hadees: Sarkar Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne Hazrat Aisha RadiAllahutaAlaAnha se farmaya ke agar tu mujh se pehle faut ho gayi to main tujhe ghusl donga{ Sahih ibn maja Hadees No. 1197}.
Hadees: Hazrat Aisha RadiAllahutaAlaAnha ne kaha ke agar mujhe us baat ka ilm pehle ho jaata jis ka ilm mujhe takheer se hua to Sarkar Alaihissalam ko sirf Aap Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ki azwaaj hi ghusl deti { Sahih ibn maja Hadees No.1196}.
Ghusl sete waqt parde ka ehtemaam zaruri hai:
Hadees: Nabi e paak Alaihissalam ne farmaya na koi mard kisi mard ke satar ko dekhe aur na koi aurat kisi aurat ke satar ko dekhe {Sahi Muslim Hadees No. 338}.
Ghusul kitne martaba de?:
Hadees: Hazrat Umme Atiya RadiAllahutaAlaAnha se marvi hai ke Nabi E paak Alaihissalam hamaare paas us waqt aaye jab hum Aap Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ki saahebzaadi ko ghusl de rahe the ,Aap Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya ise 3 martba ya 5 martaba ya is se bhi zyada martaba ghusl do agar tum zarurat mehsoos karo.
Ghusl paani aur beri ke pattho se do aur aakhir me kuch kaafur daal lena aur ghusl se faarig ho kar mujhe ittela dena. {Sahi Bukhari Hadees No. 1235}.
Ya kafoor ljism par lagaya jaaye ya kafoor ko paani me mila kar paani sala jaaye.
Is ke 2 fayeda bataaye gaye hai ta ke mayyit khusbodaar ho jaaye aur dosra ye ke koi mauzi jaanwar mayyath ke qareeb na aaye.
Ghusl ke liye autrat ke baal kholna:
Hadees: Hazrat Umme Atiya RadiAllahutaAlaAnha ne Aap Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ki beti ko ghusl dete waqt un ke baalo ko khola aur unhe dhoya aur phir un ki 3 mendhiya bana di {sahi Bukhari Hadees No.1260}.
Mayyat ko ghusl dete waqt narmi se pesh aana chahiye
Hadees: Nabi e Kareem Sallallahu alaihi wasallam ne farmaya mayyit ki haddi ko todna zinda insaan ki haddi ko todne ki tarah hai { Sahih abu dawood Hadees No.2746}.
