Bismillahir Rahmanir Raheem
Islam ne aurat ko izzat, haya, ilm aur roohani maqām se nawaza hai. Qur’an aur Hadīth mein aurat ke huqooq, zimmedaariyon aur maqām ko wazeh taur par bayan kiya gaya hai. Aaiye hum is post mein Islam mein aurton ke maqām ko asaan lafzon mein samajhne ki koshish karte hain — jahan izzat aur barābari ke saath mard ki zimmedari (Qawwamiyat) ko bhi samjhaaya gaya hai.
1. Qur’anī Nazariya: Izzat Aur Barābari
Qur’an Shareef me Allah Ta’ala farmata hai:
“Main tum mein se kisi amal karne wale ke amal ko zaya nahi karta, chaahe woh mard ho ya aurat.”
(Surah Aal-e-Imran: 195 – Kanzul Iman)
Maali aur Ma’irāsi Huqooq:
Jahaan duniya aurat ko virāsat aur tijarat se mehroom rakhti thi, Islam ne unhein yeh sab huqooq diye. Yeh us daur ke liye ek inqilāb tha.
Taleem ka Huq:
Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne farmaya:
“Ilm hasil karna har Musalman mard aur aurat par farz hai.”
(Ibn Majah)
2. Paighambar Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam Ka Rawayya
Rehamdili aur Insaaf:
Rasoolullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne aurton ke saath izzat, shafqat aur insaaf ka rawayya ikhtiyar kiya. Aap ne farmaya:
“Aapka behtareen shakhs woh hai jo apne gharwalo ke liye behtareen ho.”
(Tirmidhi)
Maaliyati Huqooq:
Aap Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam ne aurton ko maal par haq, tijarat karne ka ikhtiyar aur virāsat ka haq diya.
3. Tārīkhi Namoone: Islam Mein Azeem Auratein
- Hazrat Khadija RadiAllahu Anha – Tijarat aur imaan ki misaal
- Hazrat Aisha RadiAllahu Anha – Ilm, fiqh aur hadith mein sabqat
- Hazrat Fatima RadiAllahu Anha – Sabar, haya aur ibadat ki misaal
- Hazrat Maryam RadiAllahu Anha – Roohaniyat aur paaki ki alam-daar
- Hazrat Asma, Umm Salama RadiAllahu Anhunna – Himmat aur aqalmandi ka behtareen namoona
- Rabi'a Basri – Roohani ishq aur tasawwuf ki roshni
4. Aurat agar Maan hai to apne Beta ke liye Jannat hai
5. Mard Ka Maqam: Qawwam Ka Matlab Aur Hikmat
Aaj ke daur mein kuch jahil auratein ya secular soch ke log is Qur'anic hukum ko “gender discrimination” ke taur par pesh karte hain. Lekin haqeeqat ye hai ke Allah Ta’ala farmata hai:
“Mard auraton par Qawwam (sarparast) hain, is wajah se ke Allah ne un mein se baaz ko baaz par fazilat di aur is wajah se ke mardon ne apna maal kharch kiya.”
(Surah An-Nisa: 34 – Kanzul Iman)
Qawwamiyat Ka Matlab:
- Mard par zimmedari hai ke woh apne ghar ka nigran ho.
- Ghar ka kharch, biwi bachon ki hifazat, unka sukoon — yeh sab uski zimmedari hai
Hikmat Aur Tanaazur:
- Mard ki fitri salahiyat, jismani taqat aur nafqah (kharch) ki farziyat usay qawwam banati hai.
- Har nizaam mein ek zimmedar hota hai, warna fasaad barpa ho jaata hai.
Nabi Kareem Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam Ki Misal:
Aap ne kabhi apne ahle-khana par zulm nahi kiya, balke unki har zarurat ka lihaz rakha. Aap ka rawayya “Qawwam” hone ka behtareen model hai — jisme mohabbat, reham aur insaaf sab kuch shaamil hai.
6. Chunautiyan Aur Behtar Mustaqbil
Galatfahmiyan Aur Tashweesh:
Kuch riwayati rawaiyye aur media ke asar se aurat ke maqām ko ya to dabaya jaata hai, ya ghalat taur par samjha jaata hai.
Behtar Mustaqbil Ke Liye:
- Sahi taleem, waazeh tafsir, aur open guftagu se in ghalatfahmiyon ko door kiya ja sakta hai.
- Har shakhs ko Islam ke asal paigham ko samajhne ki zarurat hai.
Khatima
Islam mein aurat ka maqām izzat, haya, ilm aur roohaniyat par mabni hai, jabke mard ka maqām zimmedari, insaaf aur rehnumaayi ka paigham hai. Dono apni apni jagah maqbool hain, lekin dono ko apni hudood aur ahkaam mein rehkar amal karna hai.
Is post ka maqsad ye hai ke hum ek saaf, samajhdar aur daleel par mabni paigham logon tak pahuncha sakein — jisme na feminism ka extreme ho, na male dominance ka. Sirf Qur’an o Sunnat ki roshni mein insaaf aur izzat ka nizaam ho.
